Good Divorce Week 2026
Good Divorce Week begins on 9th November 2026, led by Resolution to promote constructive approaches to separation and divorce. As proud members of Resolution, JCP Solicitors supports an approach to family law that reduces conflict, prioritises children’s needs and helps families work towards positive outcomes.
Angela Killa, Director in the Family team at JCP Solicitors, shares her advice on how to achieve a ‘good divorce’ with the right support.
The end of a relationship can be an emotionally challenging time, bringing uncertainty about the future alongside important decisions about children, finances and property. Divorce is often portrayed as an adversarial process, with two parties working against one another. However, it is possible to approach separation constructively, even when emotions are running high or communication has become difficult.
A ‘good divorce’ does not mean avoiding every disagreement or agreeing on everything. Instead, it means working towards a fair and practical resolution while minimising unnecessary conflict and considering the long-term impact of decisions on everyone involved: this is particularly important when children are concerned.
As a member of Resolution, a family justice organisation representing thousands of family law professionals, I believe that the right advice and approach can make a real difference to how families navigate this transition.
Seek Advice Early
One of the most important steps you can take towards a good divorce is to seek specialist legal advice at an early stage. Understanding your rights, responsibilities and available options can help you make informed decisions rather than reacting to difficult circumstances or feeling pressured into an agreement.
Resolution encourages family law professionals to help clients understand their options and work towards solutions that are appropriate for their individual circumstances. There is no single approach that works for every family, so it is important to find the right route for you.
Keep Conflict to a Minimum
It is understandable that separation can bring feelings of anger, sadness and frustration. However, allowing these emotions to dictate decisions or communication can make an already difficult situation more complicated.
Where possible, try to keep conversations focused on the practical issues that need to be resolved, rather than revisiting past disagreements or apportioning blame. If direct communication is challenging, your Solicitor can help facilitate discussions and negotiate on your behalf.
There are also alternatives to contested court proceedings, including mediation and Solicitor-led negotiations to name a few. Depending on your circumstances, these approaches can help you and your former partner explore solutions in a more constructive environment to get the best outcome for your family.
Put Children’s Needs First
Where children are involved, their wellbeing should remain central to decisions about the future. Children can find separation difficult to understand and manage, particularly when they are exposed to ongoing disagreements between their parents.
Even when a relationship has broken down, parents can work towards a co-parenting arrangement that provides children with stability and allows them to maintain meaningful relationships with both parents, where appropriate and safe.
Every family is different, and arrangements that work for one family may not be suitable for another. Specialist family law advice can help parents explore their options and find arrangements that reflect their children's needs.
Find the Right Support For You
Divorce is a significant life change, and there is no expectation that you should navigate it alone. Having a Solicitor who listens without judgement, understands your priorities and provides clear, objective advice can make the process feel more manageable.
Resolution promotes an approach to family law that encourages constructive communication, reduces conflict and recognises the wider impact of family disputes. These principles can help separating couples focus on solutions and move forward with greater confidence. At JCP Solicitors, we recognise that every family has different needs and sensitivities. Our Family team provides specialist, tailored advice to help clients understand their options, navigate difficult decisions and work towards the best possible outcome for themselves and their families.
If you would like to speak to a specialist Family law Solicitor, JCP Solicitors can help. Contact Angela Killa on 01267 248893 or email angela.killa@jcpsolicitors.co.uk.